DONT'S

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Avoid/ignore speaking and listening talk that is of no use..

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Don't be a wrongdoer.

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Don't add stress in others life but relieve it.

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Don't waste your life in ...

Don't waste your time and energy in:
Distractions (which is not part of your goal)
Greediness
Backbiting
Show Off
Unwanted advice and correction
Being judgmental
Anger (Just forgive and forget so that you can release burden on self and other)
Human Error (Kaam, Krodh, Moh, Lobh and Ahankar).

Don't advise or suggest unless asked.

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Don't be driven by anyone or ur senses/nafs

unless you approve it

Don't talk 2 ur head. Just listen/learn/ignore.

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Don't let anyone or anything panic you.

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Don't let anyone trick leaking your energy..

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Don't be a trouble maker but a resolver.

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Don't be sad/jealous/arrogant/boastful

it gives negative vibes

Don't act/react differently or get distracted.

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Don't say that you know everything.

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Don't argue (to prove something).

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Don't embarrass or ridicule or defame anyone.

Don't question, show dislike or speak against someone's faith or belief or destry their idol's picture of statue, or speak against their prophet/guru/devi/devta/books. Don't don't and don't else it will cause desunity and kufr. Just remember - Kalu lana amaluna, Walakum amalukum, salamun alaikum la nabtagil (uka karm unke sath aur mera karm mere sath) .... Innaka latahdi manahbabta... (Don't give unwanted advise or correction, only Allah know who to guide or who is fit to be guided)....

Don't hurt anyone or be the reason of it.

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Don't blame or complain.

Shikwa, Shikayat, Geebat (Complain, blame and backbitting) can become the reason to break the bond of our relationship. Be Patient and deal with your dislike beautifully.

Don't compare (someone with other).

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Don't negate someone.

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Don't try to dominate, neither be dominated.

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Don't be arrogant or boastful.

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Don't give energy to negativity.

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Don't get trapped by offer, comfort and beautify.

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Don't missuse anyone or anything.

Many a time poeple say technologies are bad but NO, It is the use and misuse of anything make something good or bad. Computer and Mobile are not good or bad but it's the use or misuse of it.
If you give a knife to criminal they may misuse it but on the other hand a cook use it in productive way. So don't become judgmental if you see someone using too much of technologies but notice their activities what they are doing with it.

Don't do anything with an intention of getting compliment or reward.

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Don't do anything with an intention of getting compliment or reward.

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Don't give up, if not 4 self then earn 4 other.

In our life we give and take. Please make sure you don't die in debt. You have to serve your parent, give love to your kids and wife. Give time to your friend and relatives..

Neither speak Nor listen bad words.

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Never speak any word that gives pain to other.

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Neither Show-Off, Nor be a Compliment-Seeker.

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Teach only when people want to learn.

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