WHAT IS ANGER AND HOW TO DEAL WITH ANGRY PERSON

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The first question is why we get angry. The answer is when we dislike something, some action or behavior of someone. And when we don’t know how to react beautifully upon our dislikes.

So, if a person is angry that means he was not previously angry, but something affected him. That also means if we undo our word/action and if it is not possible then at least assure them from next time, we will not repeat this then the angry person again may come to their pervious state of mind/nature/condition.

When you are approaching any angry person then first fill yourself with kindness and start with a comfortable and peaceful gesture. Behave as if you know them for long time. Shake hand, greet them, ask or try to know what is causing anger, All good Sir? You look like sad on something.

Make sure you don’t increase their and your problem but ease them and yourself.

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