DO's

Be Pure

Be Pure Physically, mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

(Wamimma rajaqnahum un fiqoon)

You don't have to be copy cat but you should be real you, better you and the best of you. You doesn't mean your nafs but you the self. Learn right, think right, speak right and act right. Don't just read and write but also implement and keep trying until it result right.

Be Helpful and Merciful

Help people in need, ease their burden and bring happiness in their life.

Be the reason of someone's smile/happiness.

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Be Kind, down to earth & yet strong enough

You have to be good, kind and nice to person even if they are humiliating you, getting angry at you, making fun of you. If you get affected and fight back it doesn't prove you right or strong but wrong and weak. Better you ignore it, not waste your energy in it. But if you do have to face and respond, then just try to turn their anger into smile, hatred into love. Most of people are good from inside, it is just that Satan has managed to cover their goodness under multiple layers.

Be humble and Act with modesty and humility.

Humility is the quality of being humble and means putting the need of another person before your own and thinking of others before yourself. It also means not drawing attention to yourself and it also means acknowledging that you are not always right. Having quality of not talking about or not trying to make people notice your abilities and achievements and the quality of not being too proud. And have a feeling or attitude that you have no special importance that makes you better than others; lack of pride.

Be disciplined (Know when to start & stop).

Wake up
Exercise/Seva/Learning
Getting Fresh/Breakfast
Professional Job
Family Time
Rest/Sleep.

We should not skip any of above. None of them is less important ie. Each of them is as important as other. So please assign some time to each of them.
Try to assign fix time but if any case/day it is no pssible then do it same day some other time.
Note:You have limited energy and each action requires some energy. You have to share/spend your energy our of your energy stock. "Save your energy from leakage and wastage and use it for your roles and responsibilities. ... .

Be an inspiration rather than just a teacher.

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Be self sufficient.

Don't be like those who don't try by themselves and start seeking help after putting their little effort. Don't seek help, gift, offer or reward. In short don't be a beggar. Don't let other become master of yours.

Being sad is also a sin.

If you are sad or upset - your loved one also get affected. Be happy always in all odd and even situations. Fake it until you make it.

Be happy but don't make your love one sad.

The best of all is 50-50 or ___-___. Make yourself happy and make other happy so that no one has complain. The problem comes if you are in any relationship and you are thinking only of your happiness, only caring for yourself. Sometimes you care about other as well but see what is the percentage of making happy to self and what is the percentage of making happy other.
I warn you, if you become selfish for long then people in relationship which you would no longer care for you and sometime even may leave you. The all the happiness were receiving from other will be gone as well.
In any situation if you do have to choose between your happiness and your loved ones, then choose your loved one. Learn many halal ways to make yourself happy so that you have to sacrifice your happiness for other, you can do easily because you know you can later make yourself happy.

Be a Role Model.

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Be Patient and deal with your dislike beautifully.

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Be like "THE SUN" i.e no self praise.

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Be the change you want to see in others.

Else change in other may change you..

Charity is not only with money but with other good deeds as well.

Don't wait for needy to come at your door so that you can help. Put your own effort finding them and helping them..

Create something good so that whether you keep or give it, it benifit all.

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Check the demands of new generation, join them but do not SIN.

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Do what you think is right.

100 mouth will give 100 advise. When you give your ear they will enter in your brain and start rulling you from within. So don't get trapped.

Focus on learning (correcting yourself) rather than teaching (correcting other).

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Focus on present actions.

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Fix youself first:

Indeed all start from fixing yourself first.

Give 100% in what you do , if you want to achieve 100% result.

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In order to achieve something big you must enjoin with other righteous servants of God..

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Love GOD but don't be dependent on him.

If GOD will do everything, what you will do?

Live and enjoy the physical world but don't forget Allah and Hereafter.

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Learn and follow - "Energy and Time Management".

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Maintain a moderate lifestyle (food, shelter and clothes).

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Prayer: Stay Connected with your creater.

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Purpose of life:

Act as a team member of Allah, to serve his kingdom, his creations and work for creating purity, wisdom, love, respect, honesty, unity, health, healing, happiness, security and peace for all...

Realisation & Correction is the key of all improvements.

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Remove pain from as many people as you can.

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Remember ur humiliation and suffering because of all ur bad deeds/mistakes.

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Remember - You are not supreme power or have higher authority.

that you can't be punished for your wrong action or word. Even an Ant can punish you, bite you. You must speak, act and behave good. Seen, Unseen and within all notice our action and react accordingly.

Routine checking and corrections..

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Spend time with kids and young.

Spend time with people of all age - Sing, Dance and Have Fun but don't sin.

Things which is secret should be in safe hands..

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You follow your own Role/Responsibilites wether other follow theirs or not. for exmaple: Be a good father wether your son is a good son or not.

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PLATRJ --> PLATRJE --> PLATRJED --> PLATRJEDE --> PLATRJEDEB .

P (Purity) --> L (Learning) --> A (Attention) --> T (Test) --> R (Result) --> J (Job) --> E (Experience) --> D (Death) --> E (End) --> B (Beginning)